Sometimes we see somebody react in a situation and are quick to assume that they dealt with it the wrong way. What we don’t realize is that we’re projecting OUR emotions and experience onto THEIR circumstances. If you could somehow download a file of their entire life experiences, you could avoid judging. BUT that’s impossible, so maybe the better way to go is to listen to this quote from Robert Greene.
Make understanding people a fun game, the solving of puzzles. It is all part of the human comedy. Yes, people are irrational, but so are you.” -Robert Greene (pg.39)